Fighting Rape

An interesting debate has caught my attention. Last week, “Rape-aXe” debuted at the World Cup in South Africa. Rape-aXe is a female condom that has jagged hooks on the inside that attach to a man’s penis when he penetrates. The condom cannot be removed once it attaches and causes extreme discomfort, giving the woman time to escape.

This product was invented by South African Dr. Sonnett Ehlers. She invented it in response to her experience with a rape victim. According to a CNN article, South Africa has one of the highest rape rates in the world. The men who rape are rarely convicted and the women who are attacked are rarely able to seek medical attention and get help. For Dr. Ehlers, Rape-aXe is a way for women to take charge and protect themselves from rape. It is hopefully a way to deter men to rape as well. She hopes women will wear these condoms when they go on a blind date or are going to an unfamiliar place.

This seems like a great invention with great intentions but many people, including feminists, debate the effectiveness of Rape-aXe and here is where the debate begins. Some argue the condom supports the idea that “women are solely responsible for their own safety” and it doesn’t address ways to prevent men from committing rape. When you think about it, it doesn’t stop the actual act of rape. Victims will still experience the physical and psychological trauma that occurs after the attack. It is also argued that the condom reminds women of their vulnerability.

The arguments are fairly justified, but I do think Dr. Ehler’s invention is practical, especially for South African women and the society they live in. Their society does not properly punish those who rape, and the condom provides a way for women to protect themselves, take charge and punish the men who may attack them. If men know these exist, it might also deter them.

Finally, it is never good for women to live in fear, but it is important for women to understand smart ways to protect themselves and prevent an attack.

I found a number of websites that list ways to protect yourself. Here is what I found at StopCrime.org:

1. Be Armed:  Mace, Pepper Spray etc.

2. Be Cautious Outdoors: Stay confident, don’t take shortcuts, stay in well lit areas etc.

3. Safety at Home: Keep doors locked and keep main entrance lit properly

4. At a Party: Do not accept drinks from strangers